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Lovelessbachelor

Lovelessbachelor
Date Joined: July 21, 2025
Last Online: September 13, 2026
Birthday: April 26
Country: United Kingdom
Strawpage!! (warning - autism blast)

About Me

[UPDATE 09/07/26] My address has changed again, should be the last in a while, tho, unless I manage to get my own place. Thank you for all the concern i've been getting :'3 things are getting a lot better. As a note, i will be away on the 15th & 16th of this month as i'm attending a friends wedding. I've also gotten myself a kitten, because now I can do things without getting screamed at, and I've always wanted a cat for as long as I can remember. i really have to clean up this profile [UPDATE 20/04/26] Updating on previous. I hope to get back into the swing of things soon enough. My housing situation is still up in the air, but I have changed it to the address I am at currently (even if not permanently). Taking a look at this profile I would love to reorganise when I'm given a chance.

Literally nothing is stable for me at the moment, and I'm not doing all too well mentally. Even if I am struck with a lot of downtime, my motivation and ability for much has been vastly depleted. I hope you understand. I feel like I'm floating, but in a bad way. I haven't had a lot of opportunity to work on many swaps, so the ones I couldn't drop from may be delayed, but hopefully I can muster something to get them out on time.

[CRUCIAL UPDATE 02/04/2026] Something has happened and I don't want to bog you down with details, just know I am currently not at my given address on here, and I am unable to send swaps because of this. I feel awful, but it's for my safety. Just know a police report has been filed. I will make do on all swaps I can when I am able and will drop from those that haven't been assigned. I will let you all know.

Hi!! I'm always awful at introductions so i'll try keep this brief.

Emile ydw i. I'm in uni for costuming. I like history, and its clothes. definitely its clothes. I draw and write and read and paint and sew and have entirely too many hobbies.

I am Welsh! Cymru am byth. Very proud of my country.

I'm a trans man but that's unimportant, just treat me as you would any bloke.

I play/am interested in a few video games. currently replaying undertale & DELTARUNE whenever i have time. my special interest is undertale (& utmv), DELTARUNE & FNAF, but the latter less so as i'm mostly about things up to UCN (i'm autistic).

i feel as if i am giving undertale & DELTARUNE not enough space here so i have to say i LOVE these games and they are both my special interests (especially undertale). mention either in my vicinity and i will be struck with joy and enthusiasm like no other. you cannot go wrong with these 2. i dont think i can articulate how much i love them. i wish they were physical entities i could cling to for comfort, but alas they are video games i can only cling to mentally and in speech etc. what am i on about. moving on.

Never done things like this before so i hope it goes well X')

I realise I haven't got a list or anything of my general interests and stuff so. Here is that.

I like stickers.

Anything related to writing letters like nice paper etc etc.

My favourite colours are purple and green. My favourite SHADES of colours are deep jewely tones, mattes and colours you get from natural dyes which is quite vague cus you can get any number of colour in many intensity with natural dyeing. But I think you get what I mean. I love you mustard yellow.

I like dolls and little plushies, I had monster highs growing up and own a good many of them now....

I like pins, keyrings and key chains and magnets etc etc. I own many of these already but say nothing..

I like pressed pennies and other unique souvenirs from places :3

My favourite animals are cats and mice. Funny, right. I however don't discrimination on any type of feline or rodent and any animal at all for that matter. I like all animals :3

I'm a little religious? But not majorly. I'm not sure how I'd describe myself with all of that, but I'm a big fan of Catholic and Christian motifs and symbolism.

This does leak into my work. What do you mean I'm projecting Madonna onto a skeleton.

OH RIGHT I LIKE SKELETONS yes I like them, too.

And anything generally macabre I suppose. But oddly enough, i am not much a fan of witchy, fantastical themes.

I also like floral, flowery stuff, but nothing overtly girly, I guess? My favourite flower is a Daffodil :)

I like most things, but I do NOT like AI. Please don't send me that stuff. I'd appreciate a 5 second doodle on scrap paper far more.

Favorite Music

Honestly i listen to just about anything as long as i like the tune and lyrics... but i think overall i prefer swing, jazz, operas and orchestras. Big musical guy. i love music with a lot of vivid emotion. I think sometimes i'm so arty about....art....that i get pretty pretentious XD

Favorite Movies

I can never choose favourites.... But! I really enjoy Horror, comedy and romcoms. I think its sort of funny how that works. different ends of the extreme X) I also really enjoy animation and b&w films. It (1927), anyone??

Favorite Crafts

Out of everything, i took up drawing as a hobby first when i was young, and its stuck and grown with me ever since, so i'd have to say that first.

And from then i'd say writing and all the others. Sewing is different for me since i'm studying it for a profession, but it's enjoyable because it calms me down and so structured while at the same time being so creative. And seeing your completed piece after days/weeks/months of hard work is like no other feeling (even if i always find something i could've done better..).

Favorite Books

No idea!!

as a kid i read just about anything with words on it but i especially liked the famous five and the secret seven..... So just Enid Blyton!! X')

I'm only just getting back into reading again (yay!!) but I am drifting towards thrillers and mysteries and dramas and history more often than not.

Which is... kinda funny. because i almost exclusively read romance fanfiction... though then again vast majority of my favourite works ARE one or more of those categories above. hmmm....

Postage notes

This area is for notes on when it comes to posting things in the mail (so most swaps I do)

I post most of my letters via a postbox in my village, sometimes I will go to the one in town but that is only if I have bigger things to post, also (like a parcel, etc).

I mark it as sent as soon as I pop it in the postbox. I've forgotten once or twice, which is my mistake! I try to keep on top of it.

Sometimes I may send a day or so late - this is just because I'm a full time student with dwindling free time. Rest assured I always have the swap done by the deadline, it is just a matter of sending. if I am truly late, I'll message.

I try to rate as soon as I receive, usually the same day so my praises are fresh in my mind haha. If I haven't rated you, niggle me about it. I either forgot or I haven't received it.

If you don't receive my mail after the 2 weeks are up, it's probably because you're international, but regardless pop a message to let me know so we can arrange for me to resend if it doesn't arrive after a bit more time has passed (I've sent things to friends and had them not receive it until a month or so down the line!).

I seal all my letters with a sealing stamp unless the envelope is a standard dt one. I bought those envelopes right at the start of me swapping, & use them if I'm not sending things that can be contained in or with a notecards.

All things I send will have some sort of message from myself, because I like providing context & also cannot help myself from blabbering on.

I write often. It's been said that I write well - though often rather conversationally - yet I am also able construct sentences of the worst slang imaginable. My vocabulary and manner of speaking is just as my personality : meaning erratic, constantly at odds and with far too many things going on at once. I mention this, as I have realised my presence in terms of what I am seen participating in can very often vary. The reasoning for this is numerous, but I believe it pertinent enough to mention right here at the end that I don't live in nor come from the kindest environment, and I'm ailed with both autism as previously mentioned as well as borderline personality disorder, so ask you to be patient with me, if needed.

Ratings

Lealie rated for ESO: ATCโ€™S around Europe 8/26 on Sep 15, 2026
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Comment: Thank you for the wonderful Book of Kells ATC! And for your letter :) Do you remember the name of the fanfic you wrote about? I'd love to check it out! I really need to download some more to my phone - I just finished my last downloaded one (I always let a program read them to me on like 250% speed whilst cleaning and the likes ^^). Pet your kitty for me, please!
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Comment: Thank you for resending. Catch you soon ๐Ÿ˜บ
Response: glad it got to you!
Tuutis rated for ESO : ATC Sender's choice 08/26 on Sep 9, 2026
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Comment: Thank you so so much from this lovely swap! I love the ATC, the kitten is so cute and in general I like windows, so this is so perfect <3 Also thank you for the extras and you sweet note, I enjoyed reading this!
Response: i'm glad you enjoyed it!! as i'm writing she's sleeping on the same windowsill, haha
AnnaM rated for Souvenir for a friend on Sep 4, 2026
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Comment: Emile, I loved the card you sent. St. Fagan sounds like such a cool place to visit. I had to look it up and read all about it. Some day I would love to go there. Thank you for such an interesting swap!
STUFFellaneous rated for TGIF Weekend Notecard #508 on Sep 3, 2026
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Comment: Thanks for sharing your weekend with me!
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Comment: Thank you so much, the stickers were so cute!!
Star7Lily rated for A Letter Travel log on Aug 29, 2026
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Comment: Thank you for the descriptive letter Mr. Rhys Walters, your journey was an adventure indeed. Love the way the letter was folded and the seal was superb. many hearts
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Comment: Ty for the very interesting backgrounds and extras !
dancingtiger rated for The Postcard Lottery on Jul 28, 2026
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Comment: hi Emile, pc arrived today, thank you. I like Magritte's work. Glad you chose that theme. take care, zannie
craftynut rated for What's In A Name? on Jul 21, 2026
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Comment: Thank you for a cute card and sharing your name with me. All the best.
DykeKris rated for 2026 ATC #26 - Pear on Jul 20, 2026
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Comment: Emile! I LOVE this Pear ATC so much. What a wonderful gift to come home to. AND, good lord the card made me actually laugh out loud...at several points. I'd love to be a fly on the wall of your skull someday. Your internal dialogue must be GOLD. Many thanks! <3
Dan rated for Seventh Annual Garden Fete on Jul 2, 2026
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Comment: Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful fete entries with me ๐Ÿ’ž
devilyn rated for Tell us about . on Jun 30, 2026
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Comment: Thank you so much for your lovely letter and sharing with me. I hope you have a wonderful day
Steinway5 rated for 7th Annual Fete Bingo Card on Jun 25, 2026
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Comment: Thank you for the fun bingo card!! I am especially in awe of that paper you used for your note! So thick and handmade, and the wax seals!! I love it!! Can't wait for the bingo game on Saturday!!
user2148 rated for Decorative Ticket Swap for the Fete on Jun 24, 2026
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Comment: Thank you so much for the wonderful swap! Everything was perfect - the gorgeous envelope and written letter, the fabulously crafted tickets, and I thank you for the beautiful bonus ribbon and stickers. I wish you the best luck in the raffle - I already have a prize in receiving this swap! โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
LyrasHope rated for My Love List on Jun 19, 2026
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Comment: Thank you so much for your fun list!
WhiteChocolateBunny rated for My Love List on Jun 11, 2026
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Comment: Thank you for your list and the stickers! We have so many things in common, and I completely understand your love for all your favourite things. When I saw Draculaura on the paper, I actually gasped because I love Draculaura too! My hair is dyed just like hers because she was one of my inspirations haha. I hope your hand got a good rest after writing everything. Thank you again for the wonderful swap! :D
Response: Aaah, you're so welcome. Draculaura and Cleo were my faves!!
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fighterangel rated for Iron Lung ATC on May 17, 2026
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Comment: Well hello again! Pleasure to "see" you at the mailbox a second time. Your ATC is so awesome. I shared it with my fiancee and she loved it too! When I mailed my card out, the decoration and card choice did not match the theme in the slightest LOL. I love it, though! We also saw it twice in the theater, both at the same location, and I was really trying to focus on the things I missed the second go around. Mark's working on getting the DVDs and digital release out, and of course, he's doing it all by himself...should we be surprised at this point? We all know he's a masochist and just wants to see if he can take it. xD Anyway, thank you for the wonderful mail. I just read your profile updates and hope everything settles down soon for you. The most important thing is that you are safe and are taking care of yourself. You can do this.
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Comment: Thank you for the Ragatha ATC! I love how you drew her. I'm sorry that you've been going through such a tough time, and I hope things are slowly stabilizing for you. I think I've settled on Caine being my favorite character, but I really like all of them. I'm working the day the movie is set to release, so I won't be able to go see it, but I hope you get to go and have the most fun time! โค๏ธ

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Comments

mrsD on Mar 19, 2026:

thanks so much for the fun vintage SandyLion stickers and the pretty washi samples, for the WHo Like forum tag :)

LauraM540 on Mar 14, 2026:

Thanks for the envelope of handmade envies from Tag Through the Alphabet!! Great size!! Have a nice weekend!

lazylapis on Feb 27, 2026:

You're so based for running an Iron Lung ATC swap!!! I also watched it twice hehe, I'm so excited!! >:D

Star7Lily on Oct 5, 2025:


Welcome to SwapBot!

Lovelessbachelor on Jul 25, 2025:

I can talk to myself???? cwl. i do that all the time

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